im fed up of him getting stoned?
February 21st, 2010 | by admin |My boyfriend keeps telling me he is going to quit,he said after the new year he would,and he still hasnt,its vital he quits as he’s been diagnosed with the lung disorder emphysema,yet he still continues to smoke and get stoned whilst acting like idiot,i’m fed up big time,i also dont like the smell?
Time to leave him. Maybe losing you will be jarring enough for him to quit. If you care about him more as a person though than as a boyfriend, you may want to drop a line to his parents, or someone else important to them. Just so they know his addiction is still going, and he’s now lost his girlfriend because of it.
13 Responses to “im fed up of him getting stoned?”
By Creeper East Los Angeles 13 on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
how can yu hate the smell it smellz so good atlest he aint doin no harder drugz
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By Joe on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
Time to leave him. Maybe losing you will be jarring enough for him to quit. If you care about him more as a person though than as a boyfriend, you may want to drop a line to his parents, or someone else important to them. Just so they know his addiction is still going, and he’s now lost his girlfriend because of it.
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By danish_abdullah80 on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
Dump the guy. You can find better people to have a relationship with.
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By Daniel on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
you should offer him an ultimatum. either he chooses to keep you or the drugs. if he doesnt immediately change his ways, then leave him. he’ll just end up hurting you.
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By Frederick the BassMan on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
Don’t quote me on this.. but you know Cannabis isn’t as harmful as Tobacco lung wise (if this is what you mean by stoned). If you’re young then maybe it’s ok for him to do it a little. If you’re older – remind him of things that might scare him a little, make sure he’s aware of the consequences.
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By EllenMay on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
Emphysema is a very serious disorder and he is basically doing himself no favours by continuing to smoke – that’s the last thing in the world he should be doing.
If he is carrying on like this and you can’t cope with it then I suggest that you leave him to it and focus on your own life. This may sound selfish but to help someone they really have to want to be helped and it is clear that your bf doesn’t want to. It could be that he is so unhappy with his life that he depends on these things for a little relief. He needs to get serious medical advice on how to pull himself together but if he is not prepared to help himself, what effect will your loyalty have on him?
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By abdul on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
get him to see a doctor
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By Jake on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
I had a friend like this, he kept promising his girlfriend he would stop but never did… dunno what happened to him I havent seen him in ages
I’m guessing you’ve already threatened to leave him?
Marijuana isn’t addictive so theres no reason he shouldn’t stop, maybe he’s addicted to the tobaco in the joint and so his brain thinks he’s addicted to the weed?
Try spending a lot of time with him so he doesnt smoke it around you.. this way you could ease him off of it.
Good luck
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By Evening Telegraph Blog on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
He needs to be sent packing. Life is too short for this kind of stuff.
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By Mouldy Potatoe on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
Don’t look at his face, it’s causing you to become a sea lion, if you don’t stop looking at him you might grow flippers.
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By ♥ on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
one of my ex’s was constantly getting stoned. i hated it, but i drew the line when he done it infront of me.i ran off and didnt speak to him (made him cry ! haha) anyway my parents found out and said if i dont leave him, its putting myself in danger.
so i’d end it. i know you might love him, but if you love hi, let him go, and see if he comes back (without the drugs) xxx
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personal experiences – aged 15.
By tommy on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
Tell him to use a vapouriser to inhale his weed. It wont harm his lungs that way.
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By davester1970 on Feb 21, 2010 | Reply
It may be time for you to leave him. It is quite obvious that he has very little regard for your feelings and his own health. It is a sad fact that many people will not give up their vices until they are in the grave. It appears that your guy is one of them.
Isn’t quitting smoking one of the New Year’s resolutions that is the first to be be broken?
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